Fine tuning the reception? First, clear the static

Before asking his girlfriend to marry him, John asks Thomas Moore, "Must I Be 'In Love' to Propose?" In his answer for Beliefnet, Moore suggests that John approach his concerns from different angles while cautioning,

“Remember, there is a difference between inhibition and anxiety. Your doubts could be serving you well, slowing you down, and maybe even directing you out of this relationship. Anxieties about getting married are very different. They are like static. They don't guide you, they confuse you.”

Don’t be remote. Keep the channels open.
Much to ponder before the wedding reception.